Woman holding her cheek outdoors, showing signs of toothache discomfort and oral pain.

How I Use Herbal Teas to Soothe Toothache Pain (and Calm My Nervous System)

Woman holding her cheek outdoors, showing signs of toothache discomfort and oral pain.

Let me tell you something about herbal tea for toothache pain—**I didn’t learn this from a fancy herbalism book. I learned it because my tooth decided to betray me in the middle of a work week, and I was too stubborn (and broke) to run straight to the dentist. So I asked myself, “What do I already have in my pantry that might help?”

What came out of that moment was my now go-to, three-step tea ritual using herbal tea for toothache pain and nervous stomach relief: a clove rinse, followed by peppermint tea, and finally chamomile. They’re not brewed together (important note), but they work together. First to numb, then to soothe, and finally, to calm my entire nervous system so I don’t turn into a gremlin from the pain. Here’s exactly how I do it.

Step 1: The Clove Rinse for Toothache Relief (Pain-Fighting Power, the Pantry Way)

Let’s start with the heavy hitter: clove rinse for toothache relief. This isn’t your average sleepy-time tea ingredient—it’s a bold, numbing, natural pain-fighter, and it’s saved me more times than I can count when a toothache starts flaring up.

Clove has been used for centuries in herbal medicine for dental pain because it contains eugenol, a natural compound that acts like a numbing agent. When steeped strong and used as a clove mouth rinse, it brings real relief—no dentist chair required.

What You’ll Need:

20 whole cloves

1 cup hot water (about 200°F or 93°C—not boiling)

Small glass jar (for steeping and storing)

Metal mesh strainer

Small plate (to cover the jar while steeping)

How I Make It:

  1. Count out 20 whole cloves (yep, I count them individually—precision is part of the magic).
  2. Lightly crush them to release the oils, and drop them into your glass jar.
  3. Pour in 1 cup of hot water (not boiling—think tea-ready hot).
  4. Cover the jar with a plate. Let it steep for 30 to 45 minutes, or just hang out until it’s fully cooled.
  5. Once cooled, strain out the cloves using your mesh strainer.
  6. For storage, pop a lid on the jar and keep it in the fridge.

How I Use This Clove Rinse:

I pour out a little bit—usually about half a shot glass—and swish it gently around the sore area for a few minutes. I might do this once or twice in a row, depending on how bad the pain is. It doesn’t fix the root problem (get it?), but it absolutely helps take the edge off and makes life a little more bearable.

Storage Notes:

Keep refrigerated

Shelf life: Around one week. Always give it a sniff and check before using. Fresh is best.

Accessibility:

You can easily find whole cloves in the spice section of most grocery stores. The average cost is around three dollars, making this natural clove rinse both affordable and accessible.

Fresh peppermint leaves in a white strainer on a black background, perfect for steeping soothing herbal tea.

Step 2: Peppermint Tea for Toothache (Cool, Calm, and Minty On Duty)

Once the clove rinse has done its numbing magic, I follow it up with something a little more refreshing and comforting: peppermint tea for toothache relief. This step isn’t just about flavor—it’s about continuing the soothing process both inside my mouth and inside my nervous system.

Peppermint is naturally cooling, anti-inflammatory, and packed with menthol, which is why it works so well for minor pain, swelling, and that “please make this stop” toothache vibe. Plus, the tingly, fresh feeling helps your whole mouth feel cleaner and a little less irritated.

How I Use This Peppermint Tea Remedy:

  1. I brew a single cup of peppermint tea—usually a bagged grocery store brand like Stash, Twinings, or whatever’s hanging out in my tea stash box.
  2. I let it cool slightly so it’s warm but not piping hot—just cozy enough to sip comfortably.
  3. As I drink it, I gently swish the peppermint tea around the sore area, letting the menthol do its thing before swallowing.
  4. It’s soothing, hydrating, and gives a soft “chill out” effect to my gums, my jaw, and my stress level.

Optional Add-Ins (Totally Not Required):

A tiny drizzle of honey if your throat’s irritated

A drop of lemon if you want a little zing

But honestly? Plain peppermint tea is perfect for this moment.

Glass cup of chamomile tea on a rustic mat with fresh yellow chamomile flowers, a calming herbal remedy for stress relief and relaxation.

Step 3: Chamomile Tea for Stress and Recovery (Nervous System Downshift)

Once I’ve rinsed and sipped and my mouth isn’t staging a full-on revolt anymore, I bring in the final step: chamomile tea for stress and nervous system support. Think of it as the cooldown round, the “you’ve survived, now rest” phase of this little herbal ritual.

Chamomile is known for its calming properties—and not just the fluffy bedtime marketing. It’s genuinely soothing for both the body and the mind, especially after dealing with toothache discomfort or a long day of tension.

For me, chamomile helps ease muscle tension, calm my thoughts, and gives me permission to stop spiraling about the pain. If you’ve ever had pain or illness that triggered anxiety, you know exactly what I mean—your brain gets loud, your body tenses up, and suddenly it’s not just your tooth that hurts.

How I Use It:

  1. I brew a cozy cup of pure chamomile tea—bagged or loose-leaf, whichever I have.
  2. I drink it warm (not hot), usually with a blanket and a moment to breathe.
  3. Sometimes I’ll sip it slowly in bed while watching something chill and cozy and cuddling my dogs. That’s my reset button.

Chamomile tea for stress relief may not physically cure anything, but it helps me come down from the spiral—and that is its own kind of powerful medicine.


Wrap-Up: One Cup at a Time

I’m not a dentist or a doctor—just someone who really didn’t want to spend another night wincing in pain and pacing the floor. This three-step herbal tea ritual for toothache relief became my go-to when I needed comfort fast, using what I already had in my pantry.

It’s simple. It’s comforting. And it works for me.

Even if you’re not battling a rogue tooth right now, these herbs are worth keeping around:

Clove for emergencies

Peppermint for soothing

Chamomile for winding it all the way down


Let’s Talk Tea

Do you have a favorite herbal remedy or a tea you reach for when your body’s not cooperating? I’d love to hear about it in the comments.

Let’s share the cozy knowledge—because someone out there might just need it today.